I love the subject that I am about to talk about because it is so simple when you think about it although we make it oh so complicated. Making life decision. The cute little nose you see between the fence is my pigmy goat Chicken. She is named Chicken because she gets out of the fence that is suppose to hold the livestock in and hangs out with the chickens. Nothing holds her in! The reason I chose this picture is because you can only see part of her. You can tell she is white, has a nose and mouth, but most of the details are hidden. You would have to investigate the situation, gather more information to understand the whole picture.
I recently had a session with a young women that had questions about her education and future regarding school choices. Her question to me was "Do I stay here in the school that I am presently enrolled in or change schools and transfer to Hawaii?" Yes, of course lets get past the obvious answer of... Hell Yes! Lets go to Hawaii! giggles..... It really isn't that easy for most people though, right? When I do a session I get snippets of information in pictures and words. The information that I received was if she stayed here she would quickly fall in love and be totally involved in family life. The sensations that I received where of being swept away with the whole experience of family, being in a unit of people. Having the experience of being in a group, strengthening relationships, but, also a watering down of her independence because the purpose of that path was building a family. On the other hand, if she was to go to Hawaii, I had a vision of her walking the beach alone, picking up shells that symbolized her choices, she was very peaceful. There where so many choices. The choices where available because she took the time alone to learn about herself and her strengths. Moving away from home allowed her to broaden herself and her opportunities that would impact the rest of her life. Still allowing her to have a family later in life if that is what she decided she wanted. The picture of the little goats nose represents the small pieces that you can see at the beginning of making a decision. As life unfolds after the decision making is done and you are actually in the experiences created by the decision, that is when you can see the whole picture. Making a decision about a life choice has two parts. Decide which way to go, then decide to completely have the experience with no regrets.
As you can see, neither choice is right or wrong. Some of you who read this will feel one choice is better and some the other is better. This is due to your own experiences and longing for experiences that you feel you may have missed out on. For her there is no right or wrong path. The clips of her life that I was shown where possibilities that where available for the moment that she was asking. People will ask me what decisions they should make about specific situations. My answer is, it is not my place to tell you what to do. I can offer snippets of what I see the future holds, but our future is constantly changing with the decisions we make each minute. Everything matters, even our thoughts impact our opportunities. Ever changing.
What I am to say next is in my opinion of how things work. I am not here to convince anyone to believe what I believe. I have come to this conclusion by way of seeing how our loved ones perceive their life after they leave this physical plane. What they think is important once they are removed from the addiction of being human and not seeing everything very clearly. There are really no wrong or right decisions. If we think things through and decide on a path, have the experience of that path and be grateful for the experiences..... then we did well. Live is about being present for the experience. Period.
When we finish our life and look back at our choices and the experiences that resulted from those choices, what do you think we will see and feel? Will we wish we made a different choice? Or will we conceder how we handled each choice? Did we do it with an open heart for ourselves and others around us. Did we have grace or where crazy, bumbling, stupid heads about the whole thing. I know that sounds silly, but it is real. We will look upon how we lived life with compassion no matter which way we went or how we behaved. Humans are far from perfect. We are here to make mistakes or we would only be having half the human experience. Love, pain, wonder, boredom, soft, hard, full, empty, happy, sad........ on and on it goes.... everyday. Decide and then live without looking backwards. Be in the moment as much as you can. That way when you time comes you are aware of what is going on. Kiss your body good bye and say job well done..... No matter what. Live your decisions fully! Love your LIfe!
I am firm believer that there is so much more to us than what we can see with our regular eyes. Illness, strange feelings that we are afraid to share, dreams, twinges in our bodies, inability to sleep or even the urge to run away from our lives..... These are all small threads to explore and find out what lies behind them. Then, you can find out the true reason why you are here. All these signs and urges are clues to the big picture and it is our choice to dig deeper or not. I can see what is not visible to the naked eye. Imagine walking into a room and instead of just seeing the people in the room.... you see their history, the spirits with them, their hopes and their pain.. That's what I can see. Also it is a very common thing for my kids to tell me I have a ghost/angel that wants to speak to me that just happened to come into their room or I wake in the middle of the night with the unseen speaking to me, sometimes several at one time. This is my reality and gifts, some say. With these abilities I can help you understand why you keep having that dream, why you can't sleep, why your left leg hurts every time you go to visit your mother! You keep all the answers inside yourself, waiting to be brought up and released. A dear friend whom I have been seeing as a client for a long time now, who is in her senior years, said to me.... I want to get healthy before I die! That is one of the most profound things I have ever heard. In Intuitve Thoughts by Christina, there is much information about what I see happens after people die. We have to heal ourselves whether it is while we are still in our human bodies or after we leave. So I encourage you to start now. Even if it is just for fun to hear what your loved ones on the otherside have to say about how you decorated your home. You will find out you are not alone, they are not gone, only changed. Also that they may care differently about you than they used to. They don't have the same issues they used to, judgment is usually absent, they have a wider vision, priorities are different. Those on the otherside have such a common and different way of thinking that we do. The things that we drive ourselves crazy about, we think are so important.....well they have a absolutely different opinion. Amazing!
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Good morning everyone......
As I sit here and struggle, as I do often, with how to start.... how to keep going with what may be one of my life purposes, I decide all I need to do is try.
Lately, I have had many experiences with restless spirits. Ones that are just here, hanging on and hanging out, instead of going where they should after they leave their bodies. Never are they happy and content. These are the ones that cling to living people or haunt their remembered comfortable spots. They are restless, confused and miserable or sometimes completely in denial that they should be doing something else besides remaining here.
What if they did not try, some of them. What if they did not listen to the whispers we all hear about what direction we should go while we are alive. We all hear that call at some level. We all deny it at times. For some it is so strong they cannot deny it. For others, no matter how loud our memories of our life plan we constructed for ourselves screams out in every cell ...... we close our eyes and stick our fingers in our ears and scream la la la so we can not hear it loud enough, clear enough to push us into motion. Some of us eat too much, work to hard filling time with fruitless jobs, drugs, alcohol, sex, remain in abusive relationships.... you know, you know what I mean. When life is over we are left with " Shit, I was suppose to do something else...... but I didn't." "I remember now, but it is too late." I have seen it so many times. At that point when we leave our bodies, it is too late to complete your purpose. I have had many spirits tell me that they remember after they die what they where suppose to do because their knowing is much more clear. The clutter of being alive starts to move away like fog in the early hours of the day, and then we are left with the tokens we brought to take the ride but the park is closed and we have to go home.
One spirit that I have worked with recently was a middle aged women who died of cancer. One of the very important things she was suppose to do was find and use the knowledge of her self worth. To simply step into who she already was and stand up for herself, filling her own shoes to show those around her that she was a strong, powerful being that should not be walked on, used and abused by those around her. The reason for accomplishing this task was to unlock her self-worth. Allowing her daughter to then be free of the burden of her mothers genetically bound "curse". Am I using proper words to define all this, who the hell knows. I do know that some of you reading this will know exactly what I am talking about. We have things to do for our children. Hurdles to cross, if we choose, so our children do not have to. As you witness generation after generation of women repeating the pattern of low self worth, we have to recognize that if you take responsibility for it in your generation, it will help our children not have to continue the same path. Of course they will have their own struggles, but, we have to try..... That's the key, We have to TRY. In life she was swept away by the drama and did not wake up enough to try. In death she was bound in almost a ..... Oh crap moment.... when you get home from the grocery store and forgot the one thing that you went there for. Too late to go back and get it. Her regret and heaviness was great. Not for herself, but for her daughter, because she realized that her life goal was not just about her, but it was about her ancestors and future generations. Her daughter right now is literally dealing with exactly the same problems she was in her life. She is powerless to change the pattern because she is no longer physically here. Hence the unhappy, restless spirit syndrome, now powerless and frustrated.
When this happens, I believe it is devastating and does not really matter at the same time. There is no going back. There is no redo at that moment. Just like when we make a big mistake of any kind in life.... you just have to keep going on to the next thing and hope you can try harder, pay attention more and do better at the next thing you do.
I ask you all to think about the things you do each day that you know you should not because it is hurting you or those around you. Then try to stop, each day just try. Admit to yourself what you need to change for yourself and your children. Its the trying that counts. Its the trying that is notices by those around you, especially your children. If you can not make the change you need to at least be honest that you are not strong enough to try yet, but you are aware of the problem. It makes a difference. If you have that feeling in your gut, whisper in your mind each day, each week that you are suppose to be doing something...... then do it! damn it! Before it is too late.
If you heart screams that you are suppose to be an artist but your profession is a doctor. You cant imagine finding time to pursue your dream..... then stop and find the time. Just try! There is always a way. If you try, then there is not room for regrets. Its very important to... TRY.
Picture this.... Your life is over and you are leaving your body, you are free of all the clutter of life. Can you picture it? No work, no cravings for earthly things, no fatigue..... just clear vision. What would be left? What important thing/things would you remember that you forgot to do? What is important now? Sit for a few minutes and visualize that happening to you. You may be surprised at what is left for you to think about. Then try, try, try.
Till next time....... blue skies and lovely dreams
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My name is Christina Laughton. I live in the country in NC. I have made it a long standing practice study ways to achieve health and peace in life through allowing your true self to be seen. I have fostered many unusual abilities such as seeing, hearing and sensing the usually unseen. Then finding the understanding of how to apply this to your life, to bring a balance to your mind, body and spirit. When in alignment with yourself you will always bring healing to all parts of your life.